Trauma shaped by absence is rarely named. These books and articles are where the naming begins. I write because these patterns needed naming before they could be reached.
The book that named the wound. For anyone who has carried something they couldn't explain, formed not by what was done, but by what was never given. Invisible trauma, the attachment wound, and why it shapes everything.
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A picture book for children and parents alike. Warm, simple, and quietly important. It names the emotional needs every child is born with, before they ever learn to hide them. Prevention from the beginning, grounded in Schema Therapy and developmental psychology.
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See how to work with Dr. Andre →A flatness. A hole. Something always slightly missing, and because there was no event to name, it was never taken seriously. Not even by you. This is the place to begin.
You were told you were too sensitive. Over time, you began to agree.
Read · 12 min →Omission trauma does not only shape how you attach. In many people, it shapes whether a coherent self could form at all.
Read · 9 min →Insight is real. But it cannot reach the place where the pattern actually lives.
Read · 8 min →It is not who you choose. It is what feels like home.
Read · 11 min →You are capable. You know it. And yet something keeps narrowing what feels possible.
Read · 9 min →Unrelenting standards, perfectionism, high achievement. Society calls these virtues. For many people, they are the shape a wound took.
Read · 10 min →She sent out signals. Nothing came back. So she concluded the fault must be in the transmitter. The work was to correct that conclusion.
Read · 7 min →Ready to go further?
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The part of you still carrying the original wound: what it is, when it takes over, and how to begin making contact.
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